年初三就回到深圳大学在新东方上课了.十多天没写过文章了,现在是要开始动笔了!祝所有大耳朵的网友们以及英语爱好者在新的一年里身体健康,万事顺利,英语更上一层楼.
深圳大学金融系 赖小琪
Today I scanned my friends’ QQ zones through my QQ mailbox, and read an impressive article named “ what on earth did I learn in the past three years of college life”, written by my good friend as well as good classmate 竹静。Having finished reading the essay carefully, I sank into thought completely. I came to the realization that it was also the high time for me to turn over what on earth I did learn from my college life. I desperately need to summarize my harvest and loss during the past three years, so that I can move forward more firmly and speedily in the rest of my college life.
During the past three years of college life, I got to know that knowledge and expertise in your major dominates the whole process of your present and future life. You can never be led by the nose in your way of learning in college as you could be in senior middle school. No one will remind or force you to study unless yourself. At this moment, independence stands out and shines through your whole life and study. You should walk while others rest, go while others walk, run while others go, dash while others run. You should comply with your timetable and a moment of laziness is not allowed. Only by doing so can you keep in pace with your super peers.
During the past three years of college life, I got to know that one will never feel as proud of himself as he did in senior middle school. Potential talents are commonly seen at every corner of campus. With deeper and deeper touching with diversified all-round students, you would even feel self-abased. At this moment, you need to refresh your mind and rethink about yourself. You need to relocate your position among all the students and further develop your strengths and sidewalk your weaknesses. You need to set those who are superior to you as your examples to remind yourself of continuous moving.
During the past three years of college life, I got to know that understanding and generosity towards others is vitally important. As a saying goes, to make mistake is human. While someone does wrong to you unknowingly and apologize to your earnestly, just forgive him willingly. Harboring grudge in heart is kind of suffering both to you and others. This can also win you others’ understanding and forgiveness while you make the same mistake in the future.
During the past three years of college life, I got to know that a large networking and friend circle play a crucial role in present life and in the future. No one can isolate himself from outside world. We cannot go without the occasional assistance of friends. with large networking your voyage can proceed more smoothly. Hence we ought to make more good friends with our sincere heart. Meanwhile, we ought to cherish all precious friendship, for once it is gone, it may never come back.
During the past three years of college life, I got to know who truly loves me and who does not, who can sacrifice for you for nothing in turn and who can’t, who will stand and back you behind when storm befalls and who won’t.
During the past three years of college life, I got to know I am living not just for the sake of myself. I cannot permit my will to go anywhere it wants. With older age comes greater responsibility. We need to consider numerous elements as to financial condition, family, etc before you make a decision.
During the past three years of college life, I got to know that no matter how many friends we have, most of the time we are actually alone. Most of the time we come across picky troubles, we can depend on nobody but ourselves. We should know to rescue ourselves through our own struggle both physically and mentally instead of awaiting someone to come. It is not a matter that your friends are unwilling to give you a hand, but a matter that they can really do nothing for you. We need to always harbor in mind that no one can strike us down except ourselves.
During the past three years of college life, I got to know that someone deserves your love and waiting eternally but someone deserves not even for a second. Let bygone be bygone. For those who do not treasure your love and depart from you, just forget about it and say to yourself that he or she is suffering a great loss after departure from you.
During the past three years of college life, I got to know that tears can ease our pain temporarily, but they can never solve the problem itself. When we feel stiff pain in heart and feel the need to let it go, we can stream our tears quietly or cry out till our throat becomes speechless, but do remember, after that, we need to pull ourselves together and confront the issue stoutly. We should always hold the conviction of ultimate triumph.
During the past three years of college life, I got to know to accumulate tiny happiness in my daily life. I learn to feel grateful for everything others do for me. Even sometimes I feel extremely happy for I am still breathing for that moment. I can still bathe in the warm air and the angel of sunshine can still caper on my tender skin. I am still an energetic and independent being in this world.
Actually, there are innumerable things I have learnt in my three years of college life, but as time is limited, I have to stop here. Altogether, the past college life does teach me how to go better, think better and do better! I will cherish the rest of college life and live it to the fullest! |