when I was still in college, I had a chatting with a friend, who majored in electrics. I had to admit that it is really a failure to me. During the conversation, I got out of my mind several times, and sometimes he also showed a blank looking to me. So from this experience, I've got some ideas for achieving an efficient conversation.
In my opinion, communication must comply with a rule: that is interaction, which is the guarantee for an efficient communication. for instance, if you are chatting with others, you must react to what he said, and give your own opinion properly. But if you are indifferent or turn a deaf ear to his words, the conversation would end instantly.
An important thing you should bare in mind during communication is you must take interest in what he said. imagine, even you yourself consider it to be a boring topic, you will feel reluctant to join the discussion, then you can get little from this conversation. Just as the old saying, interest is the best teacher, so you can learn better from a communication that you are interested in.
The last but not the least，if you want to make an efficient communication, you'd better try your best to let your partner show his opinion as freely as he can. |
