1.Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.
2.Follow the three R's:Respect for self--Respect for others and--Responsibilitu for all your actions.
3.Learn the rules so you know how to work around them properly without breaking them.
4.Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
5.Share your knowledge.It's a way to achieve immortality.
6.Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
7.Ujdge a person not by appearance but by the way he/she handles a rainy day or a lost luggage.
8.Learn the difference between making a "living" and making a "life".
9.Learn that Today is the sum of all your past experiences and future potentials.Taday is a gift.That's why it's called he present.
10.Learn that you still have a lot to learn.
1.记住：塞翁失马，焉知非福。
2.遵循“3R”原则：尊重自己，尊重他人，为自己所有的行为负责。
3.要学会“游戏规则”，这样你才会懂得如何按规则办事，不违反规则。
4.记住：沉默有时是最好的回答。
5.分享知识--这才是不休之路。
6.要以你为成功所付出的代价来衡量你的成功。
7.不要根据外表判断一个人，而要看他（她）如何应付雨天或者丢失行李这样的“不幸”境况。
8.弄清楚“生存”和“生活”的区别。
9.明白“今天”是所有过去经历和将来各种可能性的总和。“今天”是一个恩赐。这就是“今天”被称为“礼物”（当下）的原因。
10.明白你需要学习的东西还有很多。
