终于迎来一个美丽的周日清晨，一个难得可以放松点的早晨。虽然下午还要去做兼职，晚上还要主持英语角，不过这么一个早晨已经让我感到很舒服愉快。本来早上还要教一个朋友英语的，可是他由于有事所以不能来了，我松了一口气，因为可以好好休息一下。现在我可能成了怪人，不太想做兼职，当听到突然不用做时，我居然会感到无比的放松。是的， 这段时间我接了太多的兼职，经常要奔波于学习和工作之间，属于自己的时间不太多。所以现在我很珍惜自己可以利用的时间，做自己想做的事情。
昨晚12点就躺下了，然而却无法入睡，在床上辗转反侧良久。睡不着是因为有太多的东西要思考，思考人生，思考未来，思考工作，思考学习。越想会越多感慨和希冀。春易秋来，一年很快又走到了它的尽头。登高眺望，远处已经不是孩童时期的风景。理想与信仰仿如一盏劲风中摇曳的灯火，随时容易熄灭。当你的长久坚持的信念被现实无情地蚕食时，你就会感受到了生命的无奈。这个社会上，现实理性的人会越来越多，衷情感性的人会越来越少。理性的人固然可以理智地做出判断和抉择，而往往只有感性的人，才能给我们带来无尽的温暖和希望。感性的人生活会多姿多彩，容易发现生活的美，很可能一片静落的秋叶，一轮西沉的夕阳，也可以让他激动良久。然而感性的人，也很容易受到伤害。心灵的敏感与脆弱让他容易多愁善感，有时候往往不能自拔，所以自杀的人往往就是感情丰富的人。所以，每个人都可以做一个感性的人，但不是每个人都可以承受这个角色。
当我们经常感慨某人非常现实的时候，我们其实很可能也是现实者之一。既然你也是这么现实的，你又何必抱怨别人现实？这个社会纷繁复杂，包罗万象，自然什么人都有。过分现实和过分感性的人我都不太赞同。只有把感性和理性巧妙结合的人，才是我们是欣赏的。这样的人懂得何时需要感性，何时需要理性。该感性时你却理性，只会葬送情感精神的浪漫与幸福。而该理性你却感性时，你会葬送自己的一生。该感性时你理性，是古板不懂变通。而该理性你感性时，是任性与不成熟。遇到抉择时，两者皆优取其重，两者皆劣取其轻，方为明智之举。对待不同的人也得用不同的态度与策略。对待真朋好友，待之以热诚；对待戚戚小人，处之以谨慎。
对待性情中人，付之以坦荡；对待彬彬雅士，交之以礼信。如此才可以得知己而避小人，广交天下志同道合之士，共创一方天下！
很多行为很难区分对与错，判断其正误得看其发生的具体场合与情景。好比杀人，如果是蓄意谋杀则罪大恶极，而如果是正当防卫，则为合情合理。心中永远平衡着一座人生的天秤，准确地衡量在特定的场合采取何种行动，方为不败之关键。
深圳大学 赖小琪
Topic:
A country becomes more interesting and develops more quickly when its population includes a mixture of nationalities and cultures. Do you agree?
With the trend of globalization accelerating, countries interact with one another increasingly frequently in economy, culture and politics, which triggers huge migration among each individual countries. Thereby, some countries have an amazing mixture of nationalities and cultures. Some people think that it is a great phenomenon that contributes to the development of a nation. Speaking for myself, I keep a skeptical attitude.
Without doubt, the procedure of globalization does bring us tremendous economic and cultural benefits, including the cultural diversification of a nation. This diversification is based on the influx of various foreign citizens who share different languages, customs, as well as religions with us. I do grant that a certain degree of interaction between cultures and a certain amount of people with different nationalities can conduce to the development of a nation for the reason that it can make our life more interesting and meantime we can open our outlooks by exposing ourselves to other exotic cultures and customs.
However, here what I stress is “a certain amount”, but if cultures and nationalities are over-flooding a nation, it will trigger great hazards to a country in various respects. First of all, when too many nationalities and cultures are bombarding a nation, it will mislead the masses to worship and pursue them and constitute a hazardous menace to our own culture. Different people may blindly chase different cultures which they think is to their own tastes and accept every single characteristic regardless of its negative sides. Then our own culture will be abandoned to some extent, especially our traditional cultures and customs. Take our Chinese traditional Valentine’s Day for example. With the intrusion of western culture, while our life is hugely diversified, our traditions have become more fragile than ever before. Now almost everyone can name out the date of western Valentine’s Day including children, and celebrates it to their heart’s content, while few can remember our traditional one. It is actually a culture loss. Secondly, the blooming of nationalities and cultures in a country will cause a series of cultural and religious issues that may detonate riots and chaos within a country. It is universally acknowledged that many cultures and religions are conflicting and can barely co-exist. In this regard, we ought to limit the number of residents with various nationalities and cultures.
To sum up, I do approve of the cultural interaction between different countries and nationalities, but I do not agree that the more nationalities and cultures in a country, the better it will be. Everything should have a limit, beyond which it may have a converse effect. |
