原文来自美文网
译者：深圳大学 赖小琪
当令你快乐的一切不能再令你快乐，当令你悲哀的一切不能再令你悲哀，甚至激怒你的一切不能再激怒你的时候，是不是很可怕？一位哲人曾说过：这就叫做苍老。
When those that once made you happy fail to do it, when those that once made you sad fail to do it, even when those that once irritated you fail to do it, do you feel horrible? A philosopher once said: It is called oldness.
再想起你，你的名字，你的笑，你的一切，都只能加上一个“别人的”。
再想起我们在一起的事，也只能加上一个“曾经的”。
When I think of you, your name, your smiles and everything about you, I know they are not belonging to me any more. Thinking of our love, I have to say it once existed.
有些感情是指甲，剪掉了还会重生，无关痛痒。而有些感情是牙齿，失去以后永远有个疼痛的伤口无法弥补。
不见面不等于不思念，不联络只是为了掩饰眷恋。
有些人脸上太多的笑是因为他们心中有太多的泪。
Some love is just like a nail, which will continue growing after being cut. But some love is like a tooth, which will never recover after being pulled out. The pain will last everlastingly. Not meeting each other does not mean I do not miss you. Not contacting is to cover my strong miss towards you. Some people put too much smile on face because they have too much tear in heart.
人生有一个地方，有一个人，在这个人面前，可以不必有出息，可以不必有形象，可以全身是弱点，这是知己。
每个人在每个阶段得做每个阶段的事，就算怀念，都得离开。
只有你不想放的，没有你放不下的。
There is a place in the world, where there is person, in front of whom you do not need to have a great achievement and a perfect image. You can even have a lot of drawbacks. She is the one who knows you better than any other person.
很多人，很多事，原本是熟悉的，以为明天可以再继续的。于是转过身暂时放手，想的是明日又将重聚的希望。太阳落下去重新升起来以前，那些事，就不可能再经历；那些人，就从此与你永别了。
I thought that many people and things I am acquainted with would remain unchanged. Therefore, I tried to let them go for the moment and expected the hopeful reunion again. However, unlike the sun which can still rise after setting, some people and things will never come back after they are gone.
有时候不知道真相，不了解本质的人，是快乐的．而能够假装不知道真相，不了解本质的人，却是幸福的．
就像一个热闹的party刚刚结束，人走了，灯灭了，黑暗中就只剩下你一个人……人有时就需要在寂寞中才能自省．只有从喧嚣走入寂静，你才会专注自己的心灵．
Sometimes who knows no truth will feel pleased, and who knows the truth but pretends to be ignorant is happy.
Just like a lively party comes to an end, you will be left alone after the lights are turned off and people are gone. Sometimes we do need to reflect on ourselves in solitariness. Only when we step into quietness from noisiness will we focus on our soul.
对的时间,遇见对的人,是一生幸福.
对的时间,遇见错的人,是一场心伤.
错的时间,遇见错的人,是一段荒唐.
错的时间,遇见对的人,是一生叹息.
When you meet the right person at the right time, you are doomed to be happy.
When you meet the wrong one at the right time, you are doomed to suffer a pain.
When you meet the wrong one at the wrong time, you are doomed to be ridiculous.
When you meet the right one at the wrong time, you are doomed to sigh for whole life.
生命中不断有人离开或进入．于是，看见的，看不见了；记住的，遗忘了．生命中不断有得到和失落．于是，看不见的，看见了；遗忘的，记住了．然而，看不见的，是不是就等于不存在？记住的，是不是永远不会消失？
There will be some people coming in and going out of our lives constantly. Therefore, we keep meeting and forgetting people nonstop. We will often gain and lose something in the course of life. What we cannot see does not mean it does not exist, and what we have remembered will also disappear one day.
我一直不愿意承认你是我生命中的过客。
今生今世,但愿岁月静好,现世安稳,每天都能看见你的笑颜。
I am reluctant to admit that you are just a passer-by in my life. I sincerely wish that I can see your smile in this tranquil and prosperous society every day.
青春尚未散场，还有未来可以挥霍。现实很穷，理想很富裕。
当你还在我身边，我就开始怀恋，因为我知道你即将离去。 我们已经走得太远，以至于忘记了，为什么而出发。
We are still young and have a long life to enjoy. Though reality is not so satisfactory, our dreams are flying high. When you are still by my side, I begin to cherishing you, for I know you are going to leave me. We have walked so far together, so much so that we forget why we should go together.
佛笑了笑：爱是因为相互欣赏而开始的，因为心动而相恋，因为互相离不开而结婚，但更重要的一点是需要宽容、谅解、习惯和适应才会携手一生的。
The Buddha is smiling to tell us: Love begins with reciprocal appreciation from one another. We fall into love because we have ever been moved by each other, and we get married for we cannot leave each other. But only tolerance, understanding and adaptation to the beloved can we go along for the rest of our lives.
我最喜欢有你的城市。
我爱你.也许这是心底最大的遗憾.
爱一个人，不要随便牵手，更不要轻易放手！
I love the city you are living. I love you, though it may be the greatest pity I’ve ever encountered. Do not hold the hands of someone you love easily, but once you do it, do not let it go!
在这世间，有一些无法抵达的地方。无法靠近的人。无法完成的事情。无法占有的感情。无法修复的缺陷。
In the world, there will always be some place you can never reach, some people you can never approach, some things you can never accomplish, some love you can never gain and some drawbacks you can never mend.
在什么都不确定的时候，我们总是爱得太迟，放弃得太快，轻易付出承诺，又不想等待结果。
戒指，不再是一生一世的承诺，终生相守的誓言，却成了纪念伤感的烙印。
When everything is still uncertain, you fall in love too late, give up too quickly, promise too easily and are reluctant to wait for the result. A ring is no longer a lifelong commitment, or a lifelong oath, but a scar in memory of our sadness.
就像有人说过的：爱情好比戒指，戴在手上，也是戴在心上；伤在心上，便也伤在手上。Someone has ever said that love is just a ring, worn around fingers but kept in heart. When we feel pain in heart, we will also feel it in fingers.
有些人是一直会刻在生命里的，哪怕忘记了他的声音忘记了他的笑容忘记了他的脸，可是每次想起他，那种感受，却永远不会变。
There will be someone deeply rooted in our heart. Though we may forget his voice, his smile and his face, our feeling when we think of him when never change.
曾经以为你是风筝，我是手中握着那根线，无论你飞向何方，我最终是你的归属。现在终于明白，如果爱你，就不应该束缚你。
I have ever thought that you were a kite and that as long as I held the string tightly, no matter where you flew, you would still belong to me. But now I come to realize that if I truly love you, I should not restrict you. |
