深圳大学 赖小琪
亲爱的朋友，
我很想真诚地和你说一声对不起！今晚收到你的邮件时，我先是一怔，半晌没反应过来，等我反应过来时，我依然一头雾水。你和我说，你不喜欢别人和你开玩笑，说一些无厘头的话，让我尊重一下你。看完你这条不足30字的邮件，我内心充满了愧疚，真的。虽然我不知道我究竟说了什么伤害你了，但是我知道我今天和你说的话中肯定有让你难受的成分，所以我很真诚地和你道歉！
Hi my dear friend,
In the very beginning, I want to deliver my sincere apology to you! At receiving your mail tonight, I felt stunned for quite a while. Then after I went back to my feet, I still felt somewhat confused. You told me that you are not fond of others’ making jokes on and saying something irrelevant to you, and you wished I could respect you. After finishing your mail of no more than 30 words, I felt deeply guilty at heart. Though I still had no idea what I said had hurt you, I know there must be some that made you sick today. Therefore, I am apologizing to you sincerely now!
希望你可以原谅我。自从我们上了健身俱乐部的课以后，我就一直把你当成好朋友。一路以来你也帮了我不少忙，问你什么问题你总是很及时地回复我，叫你发什么文件给我你也是最及时的，还好几次帮我在管理会计的课上占位，而我能为你做的，却是少之又少，这让我感到很愧疚。我们都是修双学位，都学会计，所以我们很多课都一起上，可谓是无话不谈的战友了。这么久了，你也明白我的为人。对不熟的人，我会很注意我的措辞，而对于熟人，我会经常说话不经大脑，喜欢开玩笑。或者我过分相应别人对我的理解了，也或许我的思想依然不够成熟不会体谅他人，在我随意说话的同时也就伤害了别人。如果是这样的话，我除了向你说声对不起，已经不知道该做些什么了。
My dear friend, I hope you can forgive me. Since we shared the same body-building class, I have been treating you as one of my good friends. You have helped me a lot all the way, like replying to me timely once I asked questions, or sending the data I needed to me timely, and helping me occupy the seat in managerial accounting class. However, I have done little for you in return, which makes me feel guilty until now. We are both learning double academic degrees, one of which is accounting. Hence, we have a lot of mutual classes and have become good friends who can chat with one another wildly. I think you must have known me well. To strangers or those known by sight, I will pay special attention to my wording, while to my good friends, I tend to speak without second thought and love making jokes on them. Maybe I have overestimated others’ understanding me or maybe I am still immature to be considerate to others, I hurt others unconsciously when speaking casually. If it is the case, I cannot do anything other than say sorry to you!
今晚看完你的邮件，我的心非常沉重。我想我也应该重新审视我平时为人处事的方式，还有我的言谈举止。我从来没有看不起过任何人，因为我本身并不会比别人好多少。我也自认为不会说一些伤害别人自尊心的话，或许我说了自己也没觉察吧。如果是这样的话，对于看我空间这篇日记的同学朋友们，我向你们说声对不起，希望你们原谅！
After finishing your mail tonight, I felt heavy at heart. I think it is high time I should review my modes of behaving and manners of talking. Never have I looked down upon others, because I myself is no better than them. I will not say something that will hurt others’ self-esteem. Maybe I have done it in the past unconsciously, but I did not notice. If so, for those who are reading this diary, I am not saying sorry to you if I have done said something wrong to you in the past! Please forgive me!
亲爱的朋友，我依然很感谢你以前为我所做的一切，认识你永远是我幸运的事情！同时也感谢你这么坦白地向我说清楚你的感受，而如果你一直放在心里不说出来，这样反而不好。现在起码我知道以后该怎么做了，也避免了大家的尴尬！不过不管怎样希望这件事情不会影响我们的友情，我们还是好朋友，是吗？再次和你说声对不起！
My dear friend! I still harbor great gratitude towards what you have done for me in the past. Making friends with you is always a lucky thing in my life! Meantime I feel grateful that you can tell me how you feel so frankly and straightforwardly. If you had buried all in your heart, it might be terrible. Now at least I know what I should do in the future to sidewalk embarrassment with my friends. But do remember that nothing can ruin our friendship and we are still good friends, ok? I am here again expressing my deep apology to you!
Best wishes
Yours
Lai Xiaoqi |
