让对手为你 “服务”
原文: 选自 “小故事” 网
译者:爱尔兰UCD 赖小琪
据说在阿拉斯加,有一个渔村,那里的渔民祖祖辈辈以捕捞鳗鱼为生。鳗鱼性静优雅,生命娇贵,离岸后便存活不了多久,所以市场上的鳗鱼不等出售便大多成了死鱼。可是有一家渔民每天卖的都是鲜活的鳗鱼,而大家都知道,鲜活的鳗鱼味道会更美。因此他的生意异常红火,这个家族将鳗鱼存鲜的秘诀一代又一代地传下去,并不为世人所知。
In Alaska, there was a fishing village where all fishermen were making a living by catching eels. Eel had a static and elegant characteristic and was so fragile that it would die soon after reaching shore. Therefore, most eels, before sold out, would lose life in the market. But there was a fisherman who could sell live eels every day that would taste way better than those dead. Hence, his business was extraordinarily prosperous. His secret of keeping eels live was handed down from generation to generation, only confined to his own family.
直到有一年,这家渔民的子孙把祖传秘诀说了出来,揭开了长达半个多世纪的神秘面纱:每当捕捞上鳗鱼的时候,在装鳗鱼的鱼箱里放进一些狗鱼,这是一种不安分的鱼,同时也是鳗鱼的死对头,它们的窜上窜下让生性胆怯的鳗鱼提心吊胆,生怕被吃了,这样一来,鳗鱼整个身体机能一直处于应急状态,因此鳗鱼的寿命也得以延长了。多少年来,这个家族就是靠这个简单的方法,生意做得红红火火。
Until one year, his descendants revealed the secret that had been veiled for more than half a century: Every time they catch eels, they would put another fish called pike with eels. Pike is an active fish and fond of eating eels. Therefore, the movement of pikes would greatly stimulate eels, making them feel panic and keep moving all the time. Then the eels caught would be more energetic and enjoy a longer longevity. For so many years, this family relied on this method to prosper their business.
原来,对手的存在,并非都是一种不利。 对手只有两种身份:有时是你的敌人,而有时,又会是你的朋友。刘邦视项羽为敌手,才有一统天下的伟业。当今世界第一飞人刘翔视约翰逊为竞争对手和朋友,才会打破110米栏的世界纪录,成为全球华人的骄傲。
Actually, the existence of rivals is not always unfavorable. There are two identities of your rivals: they are either your enemies or your friends. Liu Bang took Xiang Yu as his enemy, then he achieved the reunion of the whole country. Liu Xiang, well known as the fastest man in the world, took Johnson as both a friend and a rival, then he broke the world record of 110-meter hurdle race and became the pride of all Chinese.
当对手是你的敌人的时候,你首先要了解他,所谓“知己知彼,百战不殆”;当对手是你的朋友的时候,你也要感谢他的存在,因为他是我们人生斗志的强心剂,是你事业的助推器,是鞭策你前进的动力。而最重要的是必须正视你的对手,这样对手才真正在为你“服务”,而让你有所作为。
When your rival is your enemy, you should first of all get to understand him. There is a popular saying in China that when you know your enemy and yourself well, you can stay invincible at all times. But when your rival is your friend, you should feel obliged to him because it is he who motivate your ambition, promote your career and spur you to progress. However, the most important thing is that you should confront your rival bravely so that he can truly “serve” you to realize your dream!
你还在人生之路上迷茫,不知成功的路标何在吗?那么先找到你的对手吧,他会为你服务。
Are you still feeling loss at your orientation to success? Then you should first target your rivals and let them serve you! |